read this! then you will know the difficulty becomes father

One time by accident, a little girl saw her father was stroking his own face began to wrinkle with a distinguished look distinguished himself from a little hunchback, who is accompanied by a voice so hoarse cough.

The little girl then ventured to ask,

"Dad ... why Daddy's face were increasingly becoming wrinkled with a distinguished body bent?"

The father who was resting on the porch last rumahpun short answer,

"Because your father was a man, child ..."

The little girl looked confused and humming in itself;

"I do not understand what Dad meant ...???"

With wrinkled brow, he seemed lost in thought in bewilderment. But the father only smiled as he stroked her hair, then patted her shoulder, then said,

"My son, is not the time for you to understand much about the man ..."

So whispered the father, who in fact only made him more confused.
Because the feeling of curiosity which is big enough, the little girl went over to his mother and asked,

"Mommy, why is Daddy so wrinkled face and body were increasingly bent? And it seems my father became so without any complaints and pain?"

Her mother replied,

"My son ... if a man truly responsible for his family, yes indeed will like it later ..."

That's the answer to his mother. The girl rose increasingly frowned. He still does not understand, what the purpose of his mother earlier answers.

Haripun change and more time passed ... The little girl now grown up and become adults, but she remained still confused as well, looking for answers, why did his father who had a handsome face, now so wrinkled and his body becoming bent?
Until one night, she dreamed of in one bed.
In his dream he heard a sound like a very soft, but obviously his words, who it turns out it is a series of sentences as an answer to the confusion over this.

"When I created a guy ... I made it as leader of the family as well as a pillar of family building. He was always going to try to hold each end, so that families feel safe, sheltered and protected"

"I create for him a strong and muscular shoulders to be able to slam-bone support his entire family and also kegagahannya must be strong enough to protect the entire family"

"I will give him for always trying to find a mouthful of rice which came from his own sweat droplets yg halal and clean, so that his family is not neglected, though sometimes often he gets a lambasting of his children"

"I give strength and mental steel that will make him a fighter. For the sake of his family he gave up his skin stung by the heat of the sun. For the sake of his family he gave up his body berbasah because doused with cold water soaking rain and blasted winds at night. He Relax perkasanya energy expended by his family. And who he always remember is when all family members awaiting his arrival with the expected outcome of the labor-weariness "

"Give me patience, perseverance and sincerity, which would make him always trying to care for and guide the family without any complaints, although in every way of life, fatigue and pain often attacked"

"I give a feeling resilient and persistent to try to fight for love and loves his family, the atmosphere and in any situation, although not infrequently the children hurt feelings, wounded heart.

Though he felt was exactly who has provided security protection at a time when the children fell asleep. And a touch of feeling that's who provide comfort when when he was patted the shoulder for his children always love each other and love each other brothers "

"I give him the wisdom and ability to provide understanding and awareness of children about the present and future time, though often contested even boxed-katikkan by their children"

"I give him the wisdom and ability to provide knowledge and awareness, that the good wife who is unfaithful to her husband's wife. A good wife is the wife who always accompany, and together face life's journey either love or grief, although often wisdom that will any given test of loyalty to his wife, to remain standing, survive, commensurate and complementary and love each other "

"I give the wrinkles in her face for a proof, that the man was always endeavor fikirnya power to search and find a way for families to live in a happy family. And I make the body more bent to prove, that as a man who is responsible for all the family , always trying to devote his best and all his feelings, his strength, his sincerity for the continuation of family life "

"I gave him full responsibility as the leader of the family, as a pillar, in order to be used with the best. And this is only the excess which has, despite the fact that this responsibility is a mandate in the world and also in the next"

 Gasped the girl and woke from his sleep. Immediately he ran, knelt and prayed till the crack of dawn, after which he approached his father clash. He found the father was prostrate and then when his father stood holding her and kissing the palm of his hand.

"Forgive thy son's father ...
Really I can come to feel how heavy burdens during this ...."